Language of Desire vs Infatuation Scripts: Which Women's Relationship Guide?

Both programs give you word-for-word scripts for your relationship, but they address different problems. Language of Desire is for women in stable, existing relationships who freeze up around desire and sexual communication. Infatuation Scripts is for women who want to deepen emotional connection and create certainty in a man — not physical intimacy specifically, but the full range of relationship scripts from attraction through commitment. Buying the wrong one means studying for the wrong exam.

Quick Comparison

	Language of Desire	Infatuation Scripts
Best For	Women in existing relationships who want to express desire and physical intimacy more naturally	Women who want emotional scripts to deepen a bond and make a man feel certain about the relationship
Core Problem	Finding words for sexual desire when the relationship has grown quiet	Creating emotional attraction and security through conversation
Author	Felicity Keith	Clayton Max
Format	PDF (~200 pages) + audio companions + workbook	PDF (~80 pages) + workbook + script cards
Price	~$42 one-time	~$90 one-time
Recurring	Optional video membership (rebills ~$37/mo if accepted)	Optional video upsell ($37, one-time, offered after checkout)
Refund	60 days, ClickBank-honored	60 days, ClickBank-honored
ClickBank Gravity	5.39 (3× higher)	1.82
Rating	8.7/10	8.4/10

Language of Desire: Best for desire and intimacy in an existing relationship

Use this if:

• You are in a committed relationship that has lost some physical spark and you want to reinvigorate it
• You freeze up or feel awkward talking about desire or needs with your partner
• You learn well from audio — LoD includes MP3 companions you can listen to privately on the go
• You want the lower-cost entry point ($42 vs $90) backed by a higher ClickBank gravity (5.39)

The method: Felicity Keith’s program teaches you to find and say the words that express sexual desire with confidence. You get a 200-page PDF script library covering texts, in-person phrases, and audio exercises, plus a workbook that makes you adapt each phrase to your own relationship. A 30-day practice plan builds the habit gradually. Our short answer on whether Language of Desire is worth it is in the guide.

Strength: The audio format is the standout feature. You absorb the lessons during a commute or while doing chores — no desk time required. At $42 it is the better value of the two, and the higher gravity (5.39 vs 1.82) suggests a stronger real-world conversion track record. The 30-day plan helps you actually use the material rather than just reading it. We also put them head to head: Language of Desire vs The Woman Men Adore.

Weakness: The optional video membership rebills monthly after a trial period — it is easy to forget if you are not watching the billing closely. Cancel before the trial ends if you only want the core guide. The intimacy focus is also narrow: if your goal is not about physical desire specifically, this program may not address what you actually need.

Cost reality: $42 one-time for the core program. An optional video membership is offered after checkout — it starts as a trial but converts to a monthly rebill (~$37/month). Decline it or cancel before the trial ends to keep your cost at $42.

Infatuation Scripts: Best for emotional certainty and deepening a bond

Use this if:

• Your goal is emotional connection — making a man feel sure about you and the relationship — rather than physical intimacy specifically
• You want a broader range of scripts: texts, in-person conversations, moments after conflict, early-dating dialogue
• You are comfortable spending more ($90 vs $42) for a program with more emotional-psychology depth
• You prefer the fill-in-the-blank workbook approach to adapt scripts to your exact relationship

The method: Clayton Max’s program teaches emotional infatuation scripts — word-for-word lines and a psychological framework for creating certainty and deep attraction. You get an 80-page PDF guide covering the “infatuation” framework, a workbook that makes you tailor each script to your real situation, and three emergency script cards for specific moments (when he is distant, when you have argued, when he seems uncertain). We also put them head to head: Language of Desire vs The Bonding Stages.

Strength: The workbook structure is the best feature. Instead of just reading scripts, you fill in your relationship’s specifics, which makes the approach feel personal rather than generic. The emotional-psychology framework rests on real relationship science (attachment theory, Gottman communication research) and covers more relationship moments than LoD’s intimacy focus. If your issue is emotional connection rather than desire, this is the more appropriate tool.

Weakness: At $90 it is more than double the price of Language of Desire, and carries a lower ClickBank gravity (1.82 vs 5.39). An optional $37 video upsell appears after checkout. Much of the underlying psychology is also available in $15 books by Gottman or Chapman; you are paying primarily for the scripted format and workbook. We also put them head to head: Language of Desire vs What Men Secretly Want.

Cost reality: $90 one-time for the core program. After checkout you are offered one optional video series at ~$37 — skippable. No recurring billing on the main purchase. Confirm the live price at checkout.

Which one should you choose?

Pick Language of Desire if:

• Your relationship needs more physical intimacy and desire, not a general script library
• You want to listen, not just read — the audio companions are a meaningful differentiator
• Budget matters: at $42, LoD is $48 cheaper with a stronger conversion track record
• You want a step-by-step 30-day plan to actually practice the material

Pick Infatuation Scripts if:

• Your goal is emotional certainty and a deeper bond, not physical desire specifically
• You want scripts for the full range of relationship moments: early dating, in-person talks, texts, and conflict recovery
• You learn best through workbooks that make you personalize each line to your situation
• You are new to relationship books and want a broader emotional toolkit

Real talk

Language of Desire wins this comparison on rating (8.7 vs 8.4), gravity (5.39 vs 1.82), and price ($42 vs $90). But those numbers only apply if both programs would address your actual problem.

The real choice is simpler: if your relationship needs more physical desire and you freeze up talking about it, get Language of Desire. If your relationship needs more emotional certainty and connection — and you want scripts for that full range of moments — Infatuation Scripts is the more appropriate tool, even at the higher price.

One shared caveat: neither program can fix a relationship that lacks trust, mutual respect, or emotional safety. Scripts are communication tools; they work best when the underlying relationship is fundamentally healthy and the main gap is knowing what to say.

Both carry 60-day ClickBank refunds. Start with the one that matches your actual situation, and use the refund window if it misses.