Save The Marriage System vs Make Him Worship You: Which Women's Relationship Guide?

Save The Marriage System and Make Him Worship You are both designed to help women strengthen relationships, but they solve different problems in fundamentally different ways. Save The Marriage System is a couples resource — it requires both partners in the room, doing exercises together, and it works best when both people are still trying but stuck in a recurring pattern. Make Him Worship You is a solo resource — you watch video lessons, fill in a workbook, and apply communication scripts on your own, no partner participation needed. The most important question before you buy either: are you doing this together, or are you doing this yourself?

Quick Comparison

	Save The Marriage System	Make Him Worship You
Best For	Couples where both partners are still willing to engage but keep having the same fight and want a structured joint plan	Women who want to improve their own communication skills in an ongoing relationship and learn through video + workbook, working solo
Works Solo?	No — designed for two people; stalls if only one partner engages	Yes — video course you watch alone, apply skills in your relationship
Core Approach	30-day plan: Gottman-style communication drills, active listening exercises, conflict-repair scripts, weekly check-ins	7-module video course: communication scripts, attraction insights, PDF workbook exercises you complete solo
Format	Main guide PDF + audio MP3s + printable worksheets + bonus loneliness report	7 video modules (~10–20 min each) + PDF workbook + bonus scripts PDF + members’ area
Price	$25 one-time	$40 one-time
Recurring Billing	Optional membership at ~$27/month — offered after checkout, NOT pre-ticked	Members’ area is ON BY DEFAULT after a short trial (~$27–$47/month) — you must actively cancel to avoid recurring billing
Author	Lee H. Baucom PhD (marriage therapist)	Not formally credentialed on sales page
Refund	60 days, ClickBank-honored	60 days, ClickBank-honored
ClickBank Gravity	10.45	6.29
Earned Per Sale	$121.23 (highest in the women’s relationship niche)	$57.91
Rating	8.8/10	8.4/10

Save The Marriage System: Best for couples who are both still showing up

Best use case: You and your partner are still talking — you have not given up — but you keep cycling through the same argument without resolution. Both of you are willing to do the work, sit down with worksheets, and follow a structured plan. You want a resource designed for two people that turns vague “we should communicate better” into a week-by-week action list.

Method: A 30-day plan built around communication exercises that Gottman-trained therapists use: active listening drills, “I” statement practice, weekly check-in formats, and conflict-repair scripts designed to revisit old arguments without blame. The guide is structured across four weeks — assessment, communication practice, conflict repair, and rebuilding — and the audio version lets couples listen together in the car, which lowers the barrier to starting a hard conversation. The printable worksheets include a 30-day action tracker, a gratitude log, and a loneliness assessment that names the slow drift most couples avoid discussing.

Strength: The loneliness chapter is the standout — it gives couples words to talk about gradual disconnection rather than only acute conflict. At $25 one-time, it is the lowest-cost structured couples tool at this level of evidence-backed method. Lee H. Baucom has a PhD in marriage and family therapy and the communication framework tracks closely with what EFT and Gottman practitioners teach. The audio version is a genuine differentiator: couples who can listen together and then talk tend to get further than those who read separately.

Weakness: The guide requires two engaged partners. If your partner believes the problem is entirely yours to solve, has checked out emotionally, or is unwilling to sit with worksheets, Save The Marriage System will not move the needle. This is not a solo read. An optional $27/month membership appears after checkout — skip it and keep your cost at $25. The sales page promises faster results than the guide delivers; four weeks of consistent effort is the actual minimum.

Cost reality: $25 one-time. An optional membership at approximately $27/month is offered after checkout — it is not pre-ticked, and you do not need it to use the core program. Refund: 60 days, ClickBank-honored.

Make Him Worship You: Best for women improving their own communication skills solo

Best use case: Your relationship is ongoing but communication has become strained — there are things you wish you could say better, responses you wish you had in the moment, and a closeness you want to rebuild. You want a structured course you can work through on your own, in video format, that gives you actual scripts and exercises to practice. Your partner does not need to participate; you are building your own skills.

Method: Seven video modules, each roughly 10–20 minutes, covering communication dynamics, attraction maintenance, and what the program frames as “devotion” techniques. The PDF workbook runs parallel to the videos and asks you to apply each lesson with exercises before moving on. A bonus scripts PDF gives you ready-to-use phrases for specific situations: starting difficult conversations, expressing appreciation, rebuilding closeness after a fight. The members’ area provides ongoing Q&A calls and community content — but it rebills monthly after a short trial, so read the order form carefully.

Strength: The video format lowers the starting friction compared to a PDF course — short modules you can finish in a lunch break add up to a complete course over a week. The PDF workbook forces application rather than passive reading. The scripts are the most immediately usable piece: real sentences for real situations, organized by context. For women who learn better from watching and doing than from reading, the format match matters. At $40, the core course delivers clear, structured relationship communication guidance.

Weakness: The members’ area is on by default after a short trial and rebills at approximately $27–$47/month — you must actively cancel to avoid ongoing charges. This is the most important billing detail to know before purchasing. The sales page uses “secret” and “worship” framing that overpromises; the actual course is practical communication advice, well-organized, without any genuinely secret technique. If you are working through a crisis, a script library is a support tool, not a solution.

Cost reality: $40 one-time for the core course. The members’ area starts with a short trial but rebills monthly (~$27–$47/month) unless you cancel — this is on by default at checkout. Refund: 60 days, ClickBank-honored on the core course.

Which one should you choose?

Pick Save The Marriage System if:

• Both you and your partner are still engaging — you are having conversations, you both want this to work, but you keep cycling through the same conflict
• You want a structured joint plan with exercises to do together: audio to listen to in the car, worksheets to fill out on a Sunday, weekly check-ins
• You want the cheapest structured option at this quality level ($25 one-time)
• A clean recurring billing situation matters — the optional membership is NOT pre-ticked; skip it and your cost stays at $25
• You want the resource with the highest per-sale track record in the women’s relationship niche (EPS $121.23, gravity 10.45)

Pick Make Him Worship You if:

• You are working on this alone — your partner is not ready to sit with worksheets, or this is your own communication improvement project
• You learn better from video than from reading — short modules you watch at your own pace fit your schedule
• You want a scripts PDF with ready-to-use phrases for specific situations
• You are aware of and comfortable managing the members’ area billing — you plan to cancel after the trial if you only want the core course
• You want the video-plus-workbook format combination rather than audio-plus-printable

Real talk

The single clearest difference between these two guides is participation structure. Save The Marriage System is built for two. Make Him Worship You is built for one.

Save The Marriage System’s extraordinarily high earned per sale ($121.23 — the highest in the women’s relationship niche) reflects a situation where buyers are motivated, committed, and investing in a joint effort. When both partners show up and do the four weeks, the communication tools work — they are the same tools Gottman-trained therapists use, just organized as a self-guided program. The $25 price is low enough that the barrier is almost entirely willingness, not cost. Our Save The Marriage System review has the full breakdown.

Make Him Worship You earns its $40 when it is used as a solo communication-skills course: watch a module, do the workbook exercise, practice the script in your own words. It is not a secret technique; it is structured relationship communication practice for women who want to build skills on their own. The members’ area billing situation is the part to manage carefully — read the order form before you click through.

If you are unsure which situation yours is, the question is simple: will your partner sit down with worksheets this weekend? If yes, Save The Marriage System. If no, Make Him Worship You.

Both carry 60-day ClickBank refunds. Neither is a substitute for professional couples therapy in situations involving safety concerns. If control, fear, or intimidation is any part of the picture, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 before reading any relationship guide.