The Obsession Method vs Text That Girl: Full Course or Script Pack?

The Obsession Method and Text That Girl are both men’s dating products aimed at helping you get better results with women. They are not alternatives to each other — they solve different problems at different price points and different levels of depth. Comparing them is still worth doing, because men who are starting out often wonder whether to start with a cheap script pack or invest in a full course.

The Obsession Method ($69) is an eight-module video course by Kate Spring. It teaches a real, research-backed skill: building attraction through genuine, specific appreciation. You watch short lessons, do workbook exercises, and build a consistent habit. The course includes a “Text Game” bonus PDF with 30 text templates — so texting is covered inside it, but it is not the main focus. Text That Girl ($22) is a focused PDF script library for texting. You get 40 to 60 pages of ready-made messages organized by situation — first message, getting a number, after a date, when she goes cold — plus a quick-start cheat sheet. The format is copy-this-line-and-send-it-now, with no video and no broader framework. Our Text That Girl review has the full breakdown.

The decision comes down to one question: do you need a systematic framework you will build into a habit, or do you need a script to send tonight?

Quick Comparison

	The Obsession Method	Text That Girl
Best For	Men new to dating skills who want a full video course with a workbook and a real framework	Men who need ready-made texting scripts right now at a very low entry price
Author	Kate Spring	Multiple (Attraction Rockstar brand)
Format	8 video modules (~4 hours) + PDF workbook + Text Game bonus PDF + Approach video module	40-60 page PDF script library + quick-start cheat sheet + bonus video/audio
Price	$69 one-time	$22 one-time
Recurring	No recurring billing	Two post-purchase upsells; second upsell can start monthly billing — cancel to avoid
Refund	60 days, ClickBank-honored	60 days, ClickBank-honored
Gravity	6.35	2.05
EPS	$68.82	$21.76
Rating	8.7/10	8.3/10

The Obsession Method: Best for building a real attraction framework

Use this if:

• You are new to dating skills and want one structured course that gives you a full framework — not just texting tips, but how attraction works and how to build genuine connection
• You prefer video lessons in a logical sequence with a workbook that turns each lesson into practice
• You want to build a habit, not just copy scripts — the course teaches you to notice and express genuine appreciation consistently, which works beyond texting
• You are willing to invest $69 for a course with a research-backed foundation and no recurring billing

The method: Eight modules — roughly four hours of video total — walk you through Kate Spring’s framework, built on the idea that attraction develops when a woman feels genuinely seen and appreciated. This is not a pick-up-artist approach: the core technique is developing the habit of noticing specific, real things about a woman and expressing them clearly. The companion workbook translates each module into exercises you do that week. The included “Text Game” bonus PDF covers 30 text templates with timing guidance, so you get a texting resource inside the course. The “Approach” bonus module covers in-person cold approaches and body language for men who want that coverage too.

Strength: Depth and no recurring billing. The Obsession Method teaches a transferable skill — genuine appreciation as an attraction habit — that applies across texting, in-person conversations, and early dating. You do not need to buy anything else to work the full system. No recurring billing at checkout. Gravity of 6.35 reflects strong market validation: buyers consistently purchase and keep this course. The workbook is what separates it from passive watching — it forces application, which is where the results actually come from.

Weakness: Investment and commitment required. At $69, it costs more than three times Text That Girl. More importantly, the course works if you do the workbook and practice the skill consistently — if you want a one-time script to fire off tonight, this is not the right starting point. The “obsession” branding is also marketing hype: what the course actually teaches is respectful appreciation, which is the opposite of an obsession trick. The private Facebook group is low-engagement and not a real community.

Cost reality: $69 one-time with no forced recurring billing. The 60-day ClickBank refund applies.

Text That Girl: Best for men who need a texting script right now

Use this if:

• You freeze on the first text message and need a ready line to copy and send tonight
• The $22 price is what fits your budget right now, and you want a useful tool at that price point
• You want scripts sorted by situation so you can find the right template quickly
• You are a complete beginner and want one practical PDF before committing to a full course

The method: The main PDF organizes ready-made text messages by situation — first message to a new contact, asking for a number, following up after a date, re-engaging when she goes quiet. The quick-start cheat sheet summarizes a handful of texting rules (pacing replies, using open-ended questions, not double-texting) in a single page. The bonus adds a video or audio version of the same content in a different format. The approach is tactical and immediate: pick the situation, copy the script, send it. There is no broader framework and no habit-building workbook.

Strength: Price and immediacy. At $22, Text That Girl is one of the lowest-cost entry points in the men’s dating niche. It is useful the day you buy it — open the PDF, find your situation, copy the line. For men who have never bought a dating product before, it lowers the cost of trying something to almost nothing. The scripts are organized by situation, which makes it practical to navigate under pressure.

Weakness: Shallow and recurring-billing risk. The advice is surface-level: it tells you what to send but rarely explains why a given script works, so when a conversation goes off the prepared script you are left without a clear next step. The “Text Game” PDF that comes inside The Obsession Method is narrower but more grounded. The bigger practical issue is the checkout: two post-purchase upsells push the total to around $100, and the second upsell (Window Shopping For Women) can start a monthly membership unless you cancel. The $22 stays $22 only if you skip both upsells — read the order form carefully.

Cost reality: $22 one-time for the core guide. Two upsells are offered after checkout — $37 and $47, with the $47 upsell potentially starting a monthly membership. Skip both and you pay $22 total. The 60-day ClickBank refund applies to the original purchase.

Which one should you choose?

Pick The Obsession Method if:

• You are serious about improving your results with women and want one full system you will actually practice
• You prefer video lessons in order with a workbook — a structured learning path rather than a PDF you scan
• The $69 investment fits your budget and you want no recurring billing risk
• You want a transferable skill (genuine appreciation) that works across texting, in-person, and long-term dating — not just a script pack
• Gravity of 6.35 versus 2.05 matters to you as a signal of market confidence

Pick Text That Girl if:

• You need something useful tonight for $22 and will figure out a deeper course later
• You are a complete beginner who freezes at the blank screen and needs a ready line to get started
• Your budget is under $30 right now and you want to try a paid dating product at minimal cost
• You already have a handle on broader attraction and just need a ready set of text templates to fill in a gap

The natural path: These two are not competing alternatives — they are sequential. Text That Girl is a cheap beginner entry point that solves one problem (what to text right now). The Obsession Method is the step after that: a full course with a workbook that builds the attraction skill underneath the texts. If you go Text That Girl first, keep the $22 purchase limited to the core guide (skip the upsells), use the scripts to practice, then consider The Obsession Method when you are ready to invest in the full framework. If you have $69 available today, go straight to The Obsession Method — the included “Text Game” bonus PDF covers texting, so you get the scripts inside the larger course and do not need Text That Girl separately.

Skip both if:

• You are looking for a quick fix that requires no practice — no course or script pack replaces consistent effort and genuine interest in the person you are talking to
• You are already comfortable with texting and early dating and want more advanced relationship or attraction material
• You want to learn from free resources first — YouTube channels and dating subreddits cover the basics at no cost

Real talk

The gravity gap here is the key data point. The Obsession Method at 6.35 has nearly three times the market validation of Text That Girl at 2.05. That is not a marginal difference — it means far more buyers have purchased The Obsession Method, used it, and not refunded. For a $69 product to carry higher gravity than a $22 product, the course has to consistently deliver enough value that buyers keep it.

Text That Girl is a legitimate product at a legitimate $22 price. The scripts work for their purpose. But the recurring-billing risk in the upsells and the lack of a deeper framework mean it is a starting tool, not a destination. The Obsession Method includes a texting bonus, makes you practice in a workbook, and teaches you why things work — which is ultimately more useful than a PDF of lines to copy.

If you are choosing between spending $22 now or $69 on the full course, the $69 course is the better return on the money when your budget allows it.

Both carry 60-day ClickBank refunds. Set a calendar reminder for day 50 and evaluate honestly before the window closes.

— Cal Reiner