The Ex Factor 2.0 vs The Obsession Method: Which Men's Program?

The Ex Factor 2.0 and The Obsession Method both target men who want to improve their relationships with women — but they are built for entirely different situations. The Ex Factor 2.0 is a structured breakup recovery program: it walks you through the no-contact period, self-reflection, re-attraction, and reconciliation with a specific person. The Obsession Method is a general attraction course: it teaches you how to make any woman feel genuinely seen and appreciated, starting with understanding her emotional world and ending with consistent connection habits. If you are at a crossroads after a breakup — pursue her or reset and grow — this is the comparison to read.

Quick Comparison

	The Ex Factor 2.0	The Obsession Method
Best For	Men who want to reconnect with a specific ex after a breakup	Men who want to build lasting attraction skills with women generally
Author	Brad Browning	Kate Spring
Scope	Full breakup arc: no-contact, self-work, re-attraction, reconciliation, plus a moving-on path if reconciliation fails	Attraction fundamentals: genuine appreciation, connection habits, and communication skills across 8 structured modules
Formats	PDF guide + 10-module video series + audio version + worksheets + 30-day action plan	8-module video course (~4 hours) + PDF workbook (~50 pages) + bonus text and approach modules
Price	$34 one-time	$69 one-time
Recurring Risk	Optional premium plan and coaching upsells at checkout — not auto-enrolled	No recurring billing at checkout
Refund	60 days, ClickBank-honored	60 days, ClickBank-honored
ClickBank Gravity	13.12 (roughly 2x higher)	6.35
Rating	9.0/10	8.7/10

The Ex Factor 2.0: Best if you want this specific relationship back

Use this if:

• You recently broke up with someone and you believe the relationship can be rebuilt
• You want a clear, week-by-week plan rather than general principles you have to apply yourself
• You learn best from video alongside a written guide and audio
• You want a fallback: the program includes a module on moving on if reconciliation is not the right outcome

The method: Brad Browning covers the full post-breakup arc. The program starts with the no-contact period — framed here as genuine self-reflection space, not a manipulation timer — then moves through identifying why the relationship broke down, re-entry strategy, and specific behavioral changes designed to rebuild trust and attraction. The 10 video modules, PDF guide, audio version, worksheet set, and 30-day action plan are all included at the $34 base price.

Strength: The multi-format delivery and 30-day structured plan are the clearest post-breakup roadmap in this price range. Gravity of 13.12 is among the highest in the men’s dating catalog, meaning substantially more buyers have converted here than with almost any comparable program. At $34 it also costs $35 less than The Obsession Method. Our short answer on whether The Obsession Method is worth it is in the guide.

Weakness: This is a program that takes several weeks to work through intentionally. If you are in crisis mode and want to send a text tonight, The Ex Factor will tell you to wait — and it is right, but you need to accept that pace. Upsells at checkout can push the total above $34 if you accept them; decline each one to stay at $34. The “secret method” framing on the sales page is oversold; the actual content is sound relationship work, not a trick.

Cost reality: $34 one-time. Optional recurring coaching plan and upsell screens at checkout — not auto-enrolled. Decline them all and your cost stays at $34. Refund: 60 days, ClickBank-honored.

The Obsession Method: Best if you want to grow your skills with women generally

Use this if:

• You have decided this relationship is over and want to understand attraction at a deeper level
• You are new to relationship courses and want a structured, beginner-friendly video introduction
• You want to build a genuine habit of connection rather than a script for one situation
• You prefer learning from a female author’s perspective on what women actually respond to

The method: Kate Spring’s course is built around one core insight: women feel attracted to men who genuinely see and appreciate them, not men performing techniques. The eight video modules teach you to recognize what a specific woman values, express appreciation authentically, and build that into a consistent pattern. The workbook exercises turn each module into a practice habit rather than a watched video. We also have a related guide: Is The Ex Factor Worth It? Brad Browning's Program: Honest 2026 Answer.

Strength: The female-perspective teaching, structured video format, and workbook-based practice make The Obsession Method one of the more thoughtfully assembled courses in this niche. No recurring billing at checkout. The core idea — that genuine appreciation builds real attraction — is grounded in decades of relationship research.

Weakness: At $69, it costs twice as much as The Ex Factor for narrower scope. The “obsession” name and marketing oversell a simple concept the content delivers more modestly. Much of the core idea is available in Gottman’s $15 books. If you are three weeks out from a breakup and still thinking about her constantly, a general attraction course is unlikely to hold your attention the way a reconciliation program will. We also put them head to head: The Obsession Method vs The Dating Apocalypse.

Cost reality: $69 one-time. No recurring billing at checkout. Refund: 60 days, ClickBank-honored.

Which one should you choose?

Pick The Ex Factor 2.0 if:

• Your goal is one specific woman — your ex — and you want the best-supported plan for getting her back
• You want the more comprehensive package at the lower price ($34 vs $69)
• You are willing to commit to a structured multi-week process
• You want a fallback: if reconciliation is not possible, the program still gives you a structured path forward

Pick The Obsession Method if:

• You have genuinely decided the relationship is over and want to understand attraction broadly
• You are new to relationship education and want a structured video introduction with a workbook
• You prefer a female author’s direct take on what women respond to
• You want clean billing with no upsell screens to navigate at checkout

Real talk

A man buying The Ex Factor 2.0 is trying to win back someone specific. A man buying The Obsession Method has decided to move on and build skills. These programs rarely compete because they serve completely different emotional states. We also have a related guide: How to Get Your Ex Back: The No-Contact Rule, Explained.

If you are genuinely at the crossroads — not yet sure whether to pursue your ex or move on — The Ex Factor 2.0 is the stronger buy on three grounds: it is $35 cheaper, it has much higher gravity (13.12 vs 6.35, meaning more buyers have converted and been satisfied), and it covers both outcomes. The program includes a module on processing and moving forward if reconciliation turns out to be wrong for you. The Obsession Method has nothing useful for the reconciliation path.

One billing note: The Ex Factor has optional upsells at checkout but does not auto-enroll you in anything. The Obsession Method has no recurring billing at all. Neither has the aggressive auto-enrollment risk you see in some other ClickBank dating programs.

Both carry 60-day ClickBank refunds. If either program is not the right fit after two weeks, request your money back with your order ID.