Infatuation Scripts vs The Devotion System: Script Library or Video Course?

Infatuation Scripts and The Devotion System are both women’s relationship programs aimed at improving communication and deepening connection. They are not substitutes — they differ in format, price, depth, and learning style, and the right choice depends almost entirely on those practical factors.

Infatuation Scripts ($90) is a comprehensive PDF package: an 80-page script library organized by communication scenario, a fill-in-the-blank workbook called the Certainty Blueprint that tailors each script to your specific relationship, and three emergency script cards you can print and keep for high-stakes moments. The format assumes you read and fill out workbooks rather than watch videos. The Devotion System ($43) is a 6-module video course by Amy North: short, friendly video lessons covering attraction through communication, a companion PDF workbook with exercises, two bonus ebooks, and access to a members area. Amy North teaches in an approachable, plain-spoken style. The format assumes you learn better by watching than by reading a long PDF.

The core decision is not which product is better. It is: do you want a comprehensive $90 script library in PDF form, or a friendly $43 video course as a structured starting point?

Quick Comparison

	Infatuation Scripts	The Devotion System
Best For	Women who want a comprehensive script library + guided workbook and prefer PDF format	Women new to dating advice who prefer video lessons and want an affordable starting point
Author	Clayton Max	Amy North
Format	80-page PDF + audio + Certainty Blueprint workbook + 3 emergency script cards	6 video modules (~3 hours) + PDF workbook + quick-start checklist + 2 bonus ebooks
Price	$90 one-time	$43 one-time
Recurring	Optional $37 video upsell after checkout	Members area rebills monthly after trial — cancel to avoid
Refund	60 days, ClickBank-honored	60 days, ClickBank-honored
Gravity	1.82	5.50
EPS	$184.47	$42.54
Rating	8.4/10	8.6/10

Infatuation Scripts: Best for a comprehensive script toolkit in PDF

Use this if:

• You want word-for-word scripts covering a wide range of communication scenarios — not just one type of conversation but many emotional moments with a partner
• You learn best by reading and filling out a guided workbook rather than watching video modules
• The emergency script cards matter to you — printable cheat sheets for high-stakes moments when you need the right words quickly
• You are willing to pay $90 for a more complete library and the PDF format specifically suits your learning style

The method: The 80-page guide organizes word-for-word scripts by scenario — starting difficult conversations, expressing appreciation, reconnecting after conflict, and more. The scripts are grounded in couples research concepts like specific appreciation and validation. The real value is the Certainty Blueprint workbook: it does not let you copy scripts passively — you fill in blanks that tailor each line to your actual relationship, which is where retention happens. The three emergency script cards are a practical extra: they give you at-a-glance phrasing for the moments when you cannot search through 80 pages. An audio version covers the same main content if you want to listen instead of read the core guide. Our short answer on whether The Devotion System is worth it is in the guide.

Strength: Breadth. Infatuation Scripts covers more communication scenarios than The Devotion System, and the workbook format builds ownership over each script before you use it. The print-and-keep emergency cards are a feature The Devotion System does not offer. For women who are new to relationship books and want one organized resource that covers many situations, this is the more complete library.

Weakness: Price and market validation. At $90, Infatuation Scripts costs more than twice what The Devotion System costs ($43). Gravity tells the opposite story from what the price implies: 1.82 versus 5.50 — a lower gravity score means fewer buyers have purchased and kept it in the current market relative to The Devotion System. The core psychology in the guide overlaps significantly with what you find in a $15 Gottman or Chapman book, so women who already own those will find limited new ground. Watch for the optional $37 video upsell at checkout — decline it if you want to keep the purchase at $90.

Cost reality: $90 one-time at checkout. After purchase, an optional Advanced Infatuation Tactics video series is offered for approximately $37 — you can decline it and still receive the full main program, workbook, and script cards. No recurring billing is forced at the front end. The 60-day ClickBank refund applies.

The Devotion System: Best for video learners at a lower price

Use this if:

• You prefer watching short video modules to reading an 80-page PDF — Amy North’s six lessons are structured and easy to get through in a weekend
• The $43 price fits your budget better than $90, and you want a quality starting point without a large commitment
• You want a workbook that turns video lessons into action you can take this week
• You are new to dating or relationship advice and want a guided, beginner-friendly course with a clear arc

The method: Six video modules run roughly three hours total and cover the full arc from initial attraction through long-term communication and connection. Amy North teaches in plain, friendly language that avoids pickup-artist framing. A PDF workbook follows each module with exercises that make you apply what you watched rather than just watch passively. Two bonus ebooks cover adjacent topics. The members area includes ongoing content and updates — but it comes with recurring billing after a trial period, so read the order form carefully and cancel if you only want the core course.

Strength: Format, price, and market validation. At $43, The Devotion System is the more accessible entry point for women new to relationship courses. The video modules are short enough to be practical and follow a clear sequence. Gravity of 5.50 versus 1.82 means The Devotion System has a significantly larger validated buyer base — more women have purchased it and held the purchase. Amy North’s teaching style is approachable and widely praised. We also put them head to head: What Men Secretly Want vs The Devotion System.

Weakness: The recurring billing is the main hazard. After a trial period, the members area can bill $27 to $47 monthly — easy to miss if you are not watching. Read the order form before confirming, cancel the trial, and keep your cost at $43. The script coverage is narrower than Infatuation Scripts — the bonus ebooks add breadth but not the same organized scenario-by-scenario library. If breadth of scripts across many communication moments is what you need, The Devotion System is the lighter option.

Cost reality: $43 one-time for the core course. The members area starts recurring billing after a short trial — cancel it to keep the cost at $43. A 60-day ClickBank refund applies to the original purchase.

Which one should you choose?

Pick Infatuation Scripts if:

• You specifically want a comprehensive script library that covers many communication scenarios in one organized PDF
• PDF and workbook format is how you learn best — filling in the Certainty Blueprint creates more durable recall than watching videos
• The emergency script cards (printable, at-a-glance cheat sheets for hard moments) are a feature you will actually use
• The higher price ($90) is acceptable given the breadth and the format specifically matching your learning style
• You are not a complete beginner — you know you want a comprehensive library, not an introductory course

Pick The Devotion System if:

• You prefer video lessons over reading a long PDF, and short structured modules (6, about 3 hours) suit your schedule
• The $43 price is better for your budget — a quality starting point without a $90 commitment
• You are new to relationship advice and want a clear, guided course arc with a workbook
• Market validation matters: gravity of 5.50 versus 1.82 shows consistent buyer confidence in The Devotion System

Consider the price gap first: The $47 difference between these two ($43 vs $90) is a real practical factor. The Devotion System is not a watered-down substitute — it is a different format at a different price. Most women who are new to relationship communication will get what they need from the $43 video course without needing the $90 comprehensive library. Infatuation Scripts becomes the better choice when you have already completed a video course and want a more complete script library, or when the PDF-and-workbook format is specifically what you are looking for.

Skip both if:

• You feel unsafe, controlled, or belittled in your relationship — neither program addresses these situations, and professional support is what matters
• You are hoping scripts will fix a partner who refuses to engage — communication tools require a willing partner on both sides
• You already own a Gottman or Chapman book and a structured relationship course and are not looking for an additional scripted format

Real talk

The EPS gap here is one worth understanding. Infatuation Scripts earns $184.47 per sale versus $42.54 for The Devotion System — but that gap mostly reflects the $90 versus $43 front-end price plus a $37 optional upsell for Infatuation Scripts, not a difference in conversion quality. Gravity tells the reverse: The Devotion System at 5.50 has a far larger validated buyer base than Infatuation Scripts at 1.82, meaning more buyers purchase it and keep it.

That does not make Infatuation Scripts a worse product. It makes it a more specialized one. The higher price and PDF-library format limit its audience to women who specifically want that format and are comfortable with a $90 purchase. The Certainty Blueprint workbook and emergency script cards are genuine advantages. For women who know that is what they want, the $90 is justified.

For most women comparing these two for the first time, The Devotion System is the lower-risk starting point. At $43 with a 60-day refund, you can evaluate whether the video-and-workbook format works for you without a major commitment. If you want more scripts after completing it, Infatuation Scripts is a natural upgrade.

Both carry 60-day ClickBank refunds. Set a calendar reminder for day 50 and evaluate honestly before the window closes.

— Joanne “Jo” Mercer